Erectile dysfunction (ED) after prostate surgery means difficulty getting or keeping an erection. This is common and treatable. Many men feel frustrated, but you're not alone. Visit our DOXXES store on SW Freeway/Chimney Rock for tools that support recovery and comfort.
What Is Prostate Surgery–Related ED?
This condition happens when prostate surgery affects the nerves or blood vessels responsible for erections.
There are different types:
- Superficial ED – mild nerve impact causing partial loss
- Deep ED – major nerve damage after surgery
- Provoked ED – erections only fail during certain situations
Why Does It Happen?
Emotional causes:
- Anxiety about performance
- Stress from cancer or surgery
- Past trauma or low self-esteem
- Relationship tension
Physical causes:
- Nerve damage or scarring
- Muscle weakness in the pelvic floor
- Hormone changes after surgery
- Infections or poor blood flow
These causes often overlap, affecting both the body and mind.
Real-Life Examples & How to Find Triggers
Examples:
- John can get an erection but loses it during sex
- Sam needs intense visual stimulation to stay aroused
- Tony performs better when he’s relaxed
- Maria’s partner struggles with confidence, not function
How to track triggers:
- Keep a journal of what works or doesn’t
- Note patterns in time of day, mood, or position
- Try different tools like lubricants or pelvic exercises
Who It Affects
Men who have had prostate removal or radiation often face ED. It can affect:
- Body image and confidence
- Intimate relationships
- Emotional connection with partners
Gender dynamics:
- Men may feel pressure to “perform”
- Partners may feel confused or rejected if intimacy changes
How a Sex Therapist Can Help
- Explore fears about intimacy
- Identify stress or depression
- Offer communication tools for couples
- Help rebuild sexual confidence step by step
Treatment Options and Coping Tools
Counseling and Talk Therapy:
- One-on-one or couples counseling
- Addresses stress, fear, and expectations
Medical Treatments:
- Medication adjustments
- Hormone therapy (when needed)
- Devices like vacuum pumps or implants
Lifestyle & Diet:
- A healthy diet supports healing
- Exercise improves blood flow and mood
- Quit smoking and limit alcohol for better results
Pelvic Floor Therapy:
- Strengthening these muscles helps with control and stamina
How DOXXES Can Support You
At Doxxes.love, we offer discreet, body-safe tools:
- Water-based lubricants for comfort
- Pelvic floor trainers for strength
- Gentle vibrators for circulation
- Prostate massagers to ease tension
We also include usage tips with every product to help you feel confident and informed.
How to Talk to Your Partner
Being open helps healing:
- Say “I feel concerned” instead of blaming
- Talk when you're both calm and private
- Learn together with books or videos
- Be patient—healing takes time
- Set goals together for recovery
Visit DOXXES – SW Freeway/Chimney Rock
Our store offers a respectful, private space to explore sexual wellness. We’ll help you find products and support that fit your needs.
Conclusion
ED after prostate surgery is common—but you can take steps toward healing. With the right tools, treatment, and conversations, many men regain confidence and comfort. Visit DOXXES today for expert support and trusted products.
FAQs
- Can prostate surgery cause ED?
Yes, nerve or blood vessel changes during surgery can lead to ED. - How long does it take to recover?
Some men recover in a few months; others may take 1–2 years. - What can DOXXES offer to help?
Our SW Freeway / Chimney Rock store has pumps, lubricants, and support products. - What is penile rehab?
It’s a program using exercises, devices, or meds to help restore erection function. - Do all men get ED after prostate surgery?
Not all, but it’s common—especially after full prostate removal. - Are there options besides pills?
Yes. Vacuum pumps, injections, or implants may help. - Does pelvic floor therapy work?
Yes. It strengthens muscles needed for erections and control. - Does age matter?
Yes. Younger men often recover faster than older ones. - How important is emotional support?
Very. Feeling supported can reduce anxiety and boost healing. - Should I talk to my partner?
Yes. Honest communication builds trust and helps both of you heal.